HUMAN PSYCHOLOGY….ON LOVE AND LIFE…

I kriti, i am not a scientist or a doctor in any field…still i feel connected with minds of other people. Some people have a very clear and pure mind,they say waht they feel inside & some people always try to hide their feelings. There are a variety of people that exist in this world and its hard for all to match their interests with all the other people who exist in this world,for this they have to make some sacrifices & those sacrifices are given name of ‘UNDERSTANDING’. But to maintain this understanding between two people its important for both the people or both the sides to make equal amount of sacrifices as 1 sacrifice of 1 person leads to 1 sacrifice of the other person. When all such sacrifices and understanding happens between two people then that understanding is given a very beautiful name which is ‘LOVE’.

Love is a feeling which can develop many other feelings within a human being. Love can make you smile when noone is around..Love can make you cry when everyone is around..Love is a feeling which leads to happiness and its Love only which is the main reason for someone’s sadness. Love can make you think about those things which you never even thought about. A little something said to your loved one can bring tears in that person’s eyes. ‘TEARS’ come only when someone you love hurts you in one way or the other or tears come when someone you love is himself/herself hurt. Another feeling that comes when you are in love is ‘LONLINESS’. Even when thousands of people are around you,the one thing that is in your mind is the thought of your loved one which makes you alone even in the presence of thousands of people.

When you are in love you are connected with that person wholly.Tears in your loved one’s eyes can bring pain and sadness to your heart. ‘HEART’ also plays a very important role in love…The person you love i the only person who can make your heart beat slower and faster at the same time.Love can be of various types. One is..love which can be expressed and other is which cannot be expressed even if you want to express it because you know person in front of you does not feel the same love you feel for that person. Such love is given names like ‘CRUSHES’,'INFATUATIONS’….Etc…In such kind of love you mainly fall in love with the beauty & looks of that person as you don’t know what kind of person he/she really is from the inside. Such kind of love or crushes don;t mean anything in life yet they are so special as noone ever forgets who their first crush was. Crushes happen when we move one step forward in life i.e from childhood to teenage years. At that time a lot of feelings start emerging in teenagers they become more aggressive,they want independence and most importantly friends start to have a main influence on them. They don’t listen to parents much,they want privacy,they simply do what they want to do and this time is very difficult for the parents as well as their children. At this time its necessary for parents to become friends with their children otherwise they will loose their child forever. Parents should become more understanding and should try and respect the various decisions taken by their children. As children who don’t get love and understanding in their home,they have to search the rest of the world for that same love and understanding & then its the fate of the children whether they get good company or bad company. If they get good company then they will be supported & pampered all the time but if bad company comes in their life then they themselves have to deal with everything,which is the hardest part for any individual. But in such a case most of the individuals responsible and they gain dealing power in life. Power to deal with any kind of situation is the best power any individual can possess…But in case that bad company has an adverse effect on the individual then that person can go on any wrong path..But sooner or later that person will realize his/her mistake and will do everything in future to rectify those mistakes…So don’t worry end result will always be positive in most of the cases…

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  1. admin Says:

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